
"just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many." - Matthew 20:28


Matthew 10:39 "He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for MY SAKE will find it." (NKJV)
Willie Wonka stole the moral of his story from Jesus. People who seek there own happiness and fulfillment never find it in themselves. Real joy is found when you give love and live for others. Sound like a religious trick to get you to do things for other people? You won't really know until you try. Or you could ask Jesus; or the thousands of others (maybe millions) who have learned that giving your life for others is the greatest life to live. Or think about the people you dislike the most: they are pretty selfish people aren't they? Think about your heroes. They are people who giev above and beyond what is expected? So where are you? Are you some one's villain or hero? Are you givin or taking?
To be even more specific Jesus said that you have to give your life for His sake . What does that mean? Think about that. Giving your life away for others, but not for the sake of your own joy and fulfillment later, but for the sake of Jesus being honored by your life. And other people not praising you for your great acts of kindness; but peolple praising your God for your reflection of His mercy.
Good luck with that.
Matthew 9:18 "While He spoke these things to them, behold, a ruler came and worshipped Him, saying, "My daughter has just died, but come and lay your hand on her and she will live."
Matthew 7:14 " Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way that leads to life, and there are few that find it."
I feel compelled in my preparation for Life Church to do a study of all the times life, live, living, etc are spoken of in the New Testament. If I was a real scholar I would have done the whole Bible, but I am not disciplined enough to read all the Old Testament too. 
What do you think when you hear "Assimilator?"Think about it. Most people believe that they are already saved and have a great relationship with God by themselves at home. What can we do to show them that their relationship with God is not as good as they think, and that they would have a better life, and a much better afterlife if they would join us in our committment to Christ.
What does the Assimilator do?
I am sure this nice girl had a clear answer in her head, but what came out is unintelligible! Witnessing, sharing your testimony, answering moral dilemmas, and preaching can sound a lot like this poor beauty contestant if we have not practiced our communication skills by simply talking to people more often about "real" topics of conversation as opposed to weather, sports , and pop culture.
Go ahead. Try to explain your faith to someone in a clear way and see where you stand.
(Deuteronomy 30:10-20) "if you obey the voice of the LORD your God, to keep His commandments and His statutes which are written in this Book of the Law, and if you turn to the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul. "For this commandment which I command you today is not too mysterious for you, nor is it far off. "It is not in heaven, that you should say, 'Who will ascend into heaven for us and bring it to us, that we may hear it and do it?' "Nor is it beyond the sea, that you should say, 'Who will go over the sea for us and bring it to us, that we may hear it and do it?' "But the word is very near you, in your mouth and in your heart, that you may do it. "See, I have set before you today life and good, death and evil, "in that I command you today to love the LORD your God, to walk in His ways, and to keep His commandments, His statutes, and His judgments, that you may live and multiply; and the LORD your God will bless you in the land which you go to possess. "But if your heart turns away so that you do not hear, and are drawn away, and worship other gods and serve them, "I announce to you today that you shall surely perish; you shall not prolong your days in the land which you cross over the Jordan to go in and possess. "I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live; "that you may love the LORD your God, that you may obey His voice, and that you may cling to Him, for He is your life and the length of your days; and that you may dwell in the land which the LORD swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, to give them." (NKJV)